When I started this blog soon after retiring I thought that I would be posting a lot of photography but that never quite happened. I have a confession to make, since I got my iphone I have used that camera much more often than my good Nikon and lenses. It's always in my pocket so I can often get a quick shot that I might have missed with the "good" camera. Actually the iphone camera isn't bad if you are careful while shooting the picture. Since we are nearing the end of another year I thought it would be fun to post some of my own favorites from the past year and talk about why I like them. So let's get started. There is about one each month.
Random thoughts from the heartland, pictures and narration by Photographer Quentin Robinson.
Tuesday, November 28, 2023
Wednesday, November 15, 2023
Good old American Consumerism AKA Conspicuous Consumption
I read a funny quote on Facebook the other day. Life consists of three phases:
1. Wanting stuff
2. Collecting stuff
3. Getting rid of stuff
Camilla and I have hit phase three I believe. At our age I think it's natural to start thinking about "downsizing" and a big part of that involves evaluating what you have and what you can do without. As I was emptying the dishwasher and putting things away the other day I stopped and actually looked at the wall cupboard where we keep our coffee mugs. My lord...why do we have over 30 coffee mugs...in addition to the white ceramic coffee cups that match one of our china sets. I have not counted to see what the actual total is. I'm afraid to. I did however take a quick photo of that wall cupboard just to give readers some idea of how runaway our "collecting" of coffee mugs has gone.
I would guess that we are not any different than a large number of other folks. Our American economy is based on consumerism so companies have always worked hard to increase our desire to have "stuff". We have been convinced that possessions are a sign of wealth, and wealth equals worth to many. So we buy, collect and accumulate more stuff to in order to make us feel better about ourselves. Not because we need more stuff but we long for more worth. When we get a new thing it makes us feel better about ourseves, at least for a while.
So going back to my question about why we have so many coffee mugs. We both have a small number of "favorites" that we use most days. Usually we make a pot of regular coffee each morning and then a pot of decaf in the afternoon but we usually use the same cup all day, and sometimes I use the same mug for more than one day with just a hot water rinse between days. Some of our mugs have been gifts, I think we brought a few home from my parent's home after mom died. We did a lot of travel in the first several years after I retired and some of the cups are souvenirs from places we have visited. I have a colorful Route 66 mug as we have traveled that road a few times on our way to Arizona. It might be the mug I use most often. A basic fact of life is that "too much of anything is the beginning of a mess." In truth we have created a mess and having a lot of stuff just complicates our lives.
So which mugs would we eliminate if we wanted to simplify our lives? I'm not sure yet, but I think we will find out one of these days soon but coffee mugs are just the tip of the clutter iceberg.
Our clothing is just as much a nightmare as our coffee cups. My closet was full, tightly packed full of shirts, in fact I was using two closets, one just for shirts and another for pants. There were, and still are, so many shirts that the closet rods were literally packed so tight that it was hard to get a hanger off the rod without messing up 2 or three adjoining hangers. Before retirement I was using lots of shirts, a clean ironed dress shirt every day. Now some of those same shirts are still hanging there, unworn for several years. Earlier this week I cleaned out my shirt closet, pants closet, and went through my sweaters and sweatshirts and I ended up taking 3 large bags of clothes to the Salvation Army.
We have lots more to donate or sell in order to simplify our lives, but at least we have started moving in the right direction.