Is it just me?
Random thoughts from the heartland, pictures and narration by Photographer Quentin Robinson.
Sunday, June 9, 2024
Why do we do this?
Friday, April 12, 2024
IT TAKES A WHILE TO FIGURE THINGS OUT
Sunday, January 14, 2024
In the dark shadows of my mind
Caution: Side Effects
Side effects. You hear those two words often. They are almost always described in relation to an unexpected or adverse effect caused by medication. It is also used on occasion to describe any action that results in an adverse and surprising way even when the action was done for totally unrelated reasons and a totally different result had been expected.
Let me provide an example of the use of the words when not related to medicine. One example might go something like this. If we elect Donald Trump to a second term as President and a few months later he declares himself as "president for life" and then he bombs SanFrancisco because it is "too liberal" to suit him. That would be an unexpected event of electing someone who is an ego maniac after we had believed him to be the best thing since sliced bread.
Now back to the medical definition because the prior example is too frightening to dwell on.
The usual way in which those two words are described is this: "Side effects", also sometimes called adverse reactions. Those reaction are unwanted and undesirable effects that are related to use of a drug. Side effects can vary from minor problems like a runny nose to life-threatening events, such as a heart attack, dangerous allergic reaction, liver damage, or other serious results after taking the drug. You might wonder why I bring up side effects now. The reason is quite personal but a great example of adverse effects from a drug. It is a drug that I am taking so my personal experience with "side effects are good examples of just what can happen. In the beginning the drug did exactly what it was created for. It improved my life in the exact way that the drug was created for. I admit that even then there were side effects but they were actually very good but unexpected and from the doctor "Yes, that is a possible but a rare side effect." As time wore on those positive effects turned into something else, in fact almost the opposite of how I reacted to the drug in the beginning. It is possible that the change was due to the fact that my dose of the drug increased gradually over a several month period.
I should probably explain the reason I was given the drug in the first place. In 2020 I was diagnosed with Epilepsy, much to my surprise. The seizures I had are called Complex Partial Seizures. At first I was given one of the standard drugs used to treat epilepsy and while it reduced the number of seizures it did not eliminate them all and it caused me to suffer mild depression. Back to the doctor I went. She and I had a conversation about the results I was getting and she then provided a prescription for a new drug and that one hit the jackpot. It eliminated the seizures and at the same time it made me more energetic, enthusiastic, alert and upbeat. I felt like I could concur the world. Suddenly I could sleep less and still not feel tired. I became an early riser, something I had not been for a long time. I didn't feel as if I needed a nap every afternoon.
The drug came with a big warning, it had been identified as one that could come with some very dangerous side effects, the most serious being a deadly allergic reaction. For that reason they start everyone with small doses while you remain on the first prescribed medicine and then the dose of the new drug is gradually increased over a six month period and once you are at the full dose you start decreasing the amount of the first drug. The reason for that step ladder type approach is to make sure you don't show any allergy symptoms.
So that brings us to today and the side effects I'm having now. The very positive side effects I had 4, 5, and 6 months ago gradually went away at each of those minor increases in the dose. Still I'm so happy that it has worked perfectly at preventing seizures. When I went to the final step of the dose increase I quickly started feeling a rapid lessening of those good effects that I had felt in the beginning and then those effects turned around and went in the opposite direction.
My moods changed. I'm no expert on depression since I never really experienced it in the past other than as something very mild. I honestly don't know if these feelings and some other issues I have now would be classified as depression or something else entirely. Some of the feelings are so new to me that I can't even describe them adequately. One thing is that my emotions have changed in a big way. A very new feeling for me. I can go from feeling quite "normal" to being in tears quite quickly at even a little bit of something that makes me sad.
In my life before epilepsy there were, of course, things that would make me feel sad. I'm certain that's true for everyone and the reaction to such things or events comes on a sort of broad scale, in other words it was along way from happy to sad and then another long way from simply sad to tears. Now it seems the length of that scale is much shorter for me. Nearly everything in the middle that was holding those two extremes apart is gone, I fear it's much like our politics today. My dear wife has had to deal with depression several times in her life and I sure understand what she was going through much more clearly now than I did before. I was certainly not as sympathetic as I needed to be.
I believe this "thing" is caused in some way by the new medicine and not a direct result of only the epilepsy. I believe that if it is simply a side effect of the drug then certainly the doctor can make adjustments in strength and fix this...whatever "this" is. If if it is something that goes along with the condition I guess that might be much more difficult to fix. I hope to find answers to these and other questions at my next appointment in about 2 weeks.
I know humans can actually benefit from some adversity and change. We are good at adapting, otherwise our species would never have lasted as long as it has. For me personally this side effect caused change is one that I'm fond of. But I will adapt and carry on.
Thursday, January 11, 2024
I won't bore you with a long list of my personal health problems, suffice to say my physical condition and mental condition have not been in good shape for quite a long time. The same applies to my wife of 53 years. I knew we had to do something, to get a handle on all of these issues. I started at a local gym. That might sound like an odd place to start for medical and mental issues but so far it is doing what I hoped it might do. We joined said gym in Mid December. I knew that if it was going to do us any good we had to make it a regular part of our routines and so far we have done that.
I have gotten to the point in my life that I don't really enjoy getting outside during cold damp weather so I had gotten into the habit of staying inside, sitting on my butt in front of the computer for most of the day. In short, that's not a good thing and will eventually lead to bad things, and it has.
I think everyone understands that exercise has some very important physical benefits for your overall health. Most often, if asked, people will identify the following benefits to staying active. Maybe the most obvious would be an increase in muscular, heart, and breathing fitness. Others that are often mentioned would be that it will help maintain a healthy body weight.
Equally important benefits are that exercise will reduce the risk of hypertension, stroke, diabetes and even some types of cancer also It will help reduce the risk of falls and improve bone strength and prevents further loss of bone density and that reduces the risk of fractures.
Those are all great reasons to stay active throughout life. As a quick side note to those readers who are not seniors....it is probably a lot easier to stay active through life rather than trying to "catch up" at age 70. Another important benefit of staying active often mentioned are the improvements in both mental and emotional health. Physical exercise/activity has been shown to reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression and improve sleep quality. For myself one of the most surprising benefits of exercise is that it can preserve cognitive function and has been identified as lowering the risk of dementia and can even slow the progression of Alzheimer's . Now I ask, who wouldn't want that sort of protection.
When you roll all of those benefits together you have given yourself a much better chance to lengthen your ability to maintain an independent lifestyle. More good news.
As for me during the past month I know it has improved my self-esteem and I have been able to improve my activity a little bit each visit. It has taken me a lot of years to get into the condition I find myself in now and I know it will take a while to work myself back to better health, both physical and mental. I realize I won't feel like I'm 18 ever again, but I'd happily settle for the above mentioned benefits. I'm not certain if this is true for everyone but the feeling you get from a workout actually make you want to go back again.
Sunday, December 31, 2023
His Death Started a Bloody War
When you begin researching your family history you never know what interesting people and stories you might uncover. This is one such story from my own family history.
Reverend Benjamin Franklin Tolby photo provided by the author
Benjamin Franklin Tolby was born 26 Sept 1841 in Hendricks County, Indiana. He was the son of Thomas and Nancy Tolby who were natives of North Carolina and Kentucky respectively. Thomas Tolby brought his family from Kentucky to Hendricks County about 1828 along with his parents and several of his siblings.
B. Franklin Tolby appeared on the Hendricks County census with his family in 1850 but after that his name appears as James Frankin Tolby or Franklin J Tolby. The name change is not explained in any family documents or biographical material.
Soon after 1850 Thomas Tolby settled in Tippecanoe County, north and west of Battle Ground in Tippecanoe Township. By 1860 J. Franklin Tolby is teaching school in Tippecanoe Township while the rest of his brothers were engaged in farming.
On the 6th of August 1862 James F Tolby enlisted at Lafayette into company G of the 72nd Indiana Infantry Regiment for service in the Civil War. He was discharged 26 June 1865. The Regiment served as mounted infantry during most of 1863 and 1864. They served in campaigns throughout the south including the capture of Chattanooga, the Battle of Chickamauga, Kennesaw Mountain, Siege of Atlanta and many other operations throughout the south. One of their last operations was the pursuit of Jefferson Davis at the end of the war.
By the time the 1870 Census was taken Tolby had married earlier that year to Mary Russell and they had purchased a small farm west of Brookston. As fate would have it, farming apparently did not suit Franklin J Tolby.
He had joined the Methodist Church during a camp meeting near Battle Ground in 1857 and what he wanted to do was to become a preacher. In 1871 he was admitted on trial to the Methodist ministry and thereafter served churches in White, Benton and Newton Counties. In 1874 Tolby volunteered and was sent as a missionary to New Mexico where he was stationed at Cimarron but also served the Methodists in Elizabethtown which at the time had become a gold mining boom town.
Based on the recollections of those who knew him, Frank Tolby was personable and well regarded in the communities he served. He was described as bold and fearless both in the pulpit and out and was a naturally talented and compelling speaker.
Reverend Tolby, his wife Mary and their two young daughters, Rachel and Grace, had arrived in Cimarron at a particularly troubled time. You might say he landed right in the middle of a nest of mad hornets. Trouble had been brewing for a couple of years but there had not been any violence, at least not the kind that resulted in death.
Library of Congress photo
In 1841 when New Mexico was still a part of old Mexico a man by the name of Charles Beaubien, a French Canadian fur trapper who had settled in that part of Mexico some years earlier was able to get a large land grant from Governor Armijo. It contained nearly two million acres. At the time there was Mexican law that limited such grants to no more than 92,000 acres and that fact became important later. The Governor hoped that the area would be developed and filled up by Mexican settlers which would act as a buffer to Americans coming from the east.
In the 1850’s, Lucien Maxwell, a son-in-law of Beaubien, took on the active management of the land grant and after Beaubien’s death in 1864 Maxwell and his wife bought out the other heirs at a cost of about $36,000. Under Maxwell’s management settlers had arrived, but they were mostly Americans. Maxwell did not have formal arrangements with most of those who settled on his land, he was running several businesses that profited off the settlers in other ways and that made collecting rents less important. In 1870, Maxwell sold the grant to financiers representing British investors for the sum of $1,375,000 and afterwards retired comfortably to Fort Sumner, New Mexico where he died in 1875.
Lucien B. Maxwell (legendsofamerica.com
The investors hired managers to look after the grant. Several well-connected Santa Fe politicians became local members of the board of the company. The foreign owners hoped to earn income from their investment.
What they found was that records of sales and agreements were mostly nonexistent. Prior to the sale Maxwell had maintained a complex and fluid set of individual property relationships with those who lived on the grant land. Maxwell had sold some parcels, and some of those who lived and worked on the grant were squatters who had paid little or no rent for years. Some had lived on and worked their farms on that land for 30 or more years. Maxwell had operated one of the most tangled and ambiguous labor systems of the century. When the outsiders had arrived in New Mexico and tried to organize the estate and the enterprise along the lines of established U. S. business and legal practices it was an ill fit for those who were used to the Maxwell system.
When the new company demanded rents from the squatters they were mostly ignored, the land grant managers tried legal processes and when those attempts failed they started evicting families. Several well-connected Santa Fe politicians had become board members of the company so in many ways the “company” and the government were one. What the company needed was what the politicians provided.
If the families refused to vacate, threats of violence were used and in some cases buildings, pastures or crops were burned, and livestock either driven off or killed. There was widespread belief that the Grant owners and managers had paid off judges and other officials so that every legal challenge the settlers made was defeated. There were accusations of corruption, many of which were later proven to be true.
There was a strong feeling among the Americans who had settled on the grant that the land should be converted to public domain land and put on the market by the Federal Government. They believed that the original grant had not complied with Mexican Law and should be vacated or at least sized down by about half. Others argued that any grants that had been made by Mexico should be null and void simply because the United States had won the Mexican war.
It did not take Reverend Tolby long to take sides and he was firmly on the side of the settlers against the Foreign owned land company and the local politicians (known as the Santa Fe Ring) who enabled the bully tactics being used by the company. Tolby not only preached against the company and their enablers from the pulpit in both Cimarron and Elizabethtown, but he soon started writing long detailed letters describing the situation to newspapers back east. One of his “editorials” published in the New York Sun in which he named names associated the group known as the Santa Fe Ring and described their corrupt political methods. That one apparently caught the attention of the wrong folks in New Mexico.
Sunday, September 13, 1875 was Tolby’s day to preach in Elizabethtown, around 25 miles from his home in Cimarron. His wife Mary and their two daughters had stayed home. Mary expected his return on Monday, probably no later than late afternoon. He didn’t return Monday and early on Tuesday Mary had become worried and requested a search party. Rev Tolby was found dead, shot twice in the back and hidden behind some brush. His horse, saddle, and other personal items had not been touched so it had clearly not been a robbery. Tolby’s many friends throughout Colfax County were furious. Even Clay Allison a local rancher and a noted gun fighter who had fought for the Confederats during the Civil War was furious. The two men were unlikely friends, but Tolby had the sort of personality that drew people to him. Allison has been described as a man with a temper and the personality of a Honey Badger. Once asked what he did for a living he replied, “I’m a shootist.” Lots of people were afraid of him, and with good reason. Clay was a man who went to extreme lengths to extract retribution when he felt he had been slighted or wronged. His Bible Belt upbringing demanded a settling of scores for the death of a Methodist minister who was also his friend.
The “cold war” that had been going on since Maxwell sold the grant to the foreign investors had entered a new, and much more dangerous phase.
Besides Clay Allison, who did not need much of an excuse to settle a score, Reverend Oscar P McMains took up the mantel of leading a “holy war” to break the backs of the Maxwell Grant owners. He was quoted as saying “The war is on..no quarter will be given for the foreign land thieves and their hired assassins”.
Within two weeks rumors began to circulate that Cruz Vega the man who hauled mail from Elizabethtown to Cimarron and was the new Cimarron constable, was involved in the murder. On the evening of October 30, 1875 a masked mob who were said to have been led by McMains and Allison confronted Vega. He denied having had anything to do with the murder and pointed the mob toward Manuel Cardenas. The mob didn’t believe Vega. He was pummeled and then hung from a telegraph pole. Ten days later Cardenas was arrested in Elizabethtown and questioned. He said Vega had shot the minister and in addition he pointed the finger at two men who were members of the Santa Fe Ring named Mills and Longwell and said they were behind the killing.
Mills barely escaped a furious mob in Cimarron but was later arrested. Longwell had escaped to Fort Union just ahead of the Allison brothers. In the meantime Cardenas was still being held in Elizabethtown and transported from the jail to the office where he was being questioned. One night as he was being returned to the jail he was shot by person(s) unknown. Violence was out of control around Cimarron and for weeks the town was in the hands of a mob. In the months after Tolby was killed it has been estimated that as many as 200 others lost their lives in Colfax county in the aftermath of Tolby’s murder.
Lew Wallace (William Henry Smith Memorial Library, Indianapolis)
Finally, in 1878 President Hayes fired the corrupt and inept Governor Samuel Axtell and appointed a Hoosier by the name of Lew Wallace as governor. Hayes wanted the mess in New Mexico cleaned up, it was being well reported in papers around the country. Although the worst of the violence in Colfax County had ended by 1878 there were still sporadic outbreaks of violence until 1887 involving the land grant company and those who were against the company.
Wallace had his hands full, just as the Colfax County war was beginning to cool down another range war was heating up in Lincoln County which at that time was the largest county in the country, consisting of nearly the entire southeast quarter of the state. Billy the Kid was actively involved in that mess.
As reported by the Daily New Mexican, Mary Russell Tolby buried her husband on Saturday Sept. 18, 1875 (newspapers.com)
After Mary buried her husband in the Cimarron cemetery she wasted no time getting back to Indiana. In 1884 she married Erastus H Smith in White County. They moved back to Tippecanoe County and lived near Battle Ground where they raised two sons. Some sources indicate Mary had given birth to a son named Frank Tolby soon after Reverend Tolby’s murder. That son died before 1880.
AFTERWARD:
Although a substantial reward was posted by New Mexico in addition to a second reward posted by the Masonic Lodge and other friends in Cimarron the murder remains unsolved to this day.
Reproduction of early reward poster for the “Shootist” Clay Allison
Clay Allison who had been directly involved in much of the violence following Tolby’s death as well as other incidents not related to that period married and settled down a bit. He left Cimarron and moved to the Texas panhandle. Ironically Allison’s death July 1, 1887 was the result of a wagon accident.
Governor Wallace finished his novel Ben Hur in 1880 during his time in New Mexico. He resigned as governor in March 1881. In May of 1881 he was appointed Ambassador to the Ottoman Empire, a diplomatic post he remained through 1885 after which he returned to his home in Crawfordsville.
The ghosts of Cimarron may have followed Mary Tolby and her children back to Indiana. In 1911 Grace Tolby, the youngest Tolby daughter was committed to Central State Hospital. She had been seeing and hearing spirits or angles who had come to disturb her and she had frequent conversations with said spirits, sometimes becoming violent, screaming and throwing things at the spirits. One must wonder if her early girlhood experiences in New Mexico were contributed to her later mental health.
In 1913 the Cimarron Masonic Lodge dedicated a large new monument over the grave of Rev. Tolby. Mary Russell Tolby Smith was an older sister of my great grandmother. I took this photo several years ago on a trip through Cimarron.
Friday, December 29, 2023
Art or Not? That is the question.
ART OR NOT
Body Language: Created from 12 individual shots. Thank you Photoshop for the help.
Saturday, December 23, 2023
I Feel Lucky |
At first the changes where not noticeable. In most ways the town continued to have the same feel and look. When the Mall opened it took J.C.Penny from a downtown location. It also took Sears from near downtown. By the mid 70's many of our old downtown buildings were beginning to look tired and worn, a lot of them were a hundred years or older. Gradually other businesses began closing, many of them having been long time downtown businesses. Loebs Department store which had been a downtown institution for almost a century closed. Reifers Furniture, another long time downtown business closed. The whole downtown from Ferry street to Main Street to Columbia Street and South Street was beginning to look tired, sad, and worn out. Downtown was well past its prime.
So what makes me feel lucky? It sounds like a sad story, and it would be a sad story had it ended in 1990 after 20, and more years of decline. Instead, like a human who beats cancer, or someone who gets a heart transplant...the downtown began to grow healthier following a series of changes and it continues to improve in health every year.
A large part of the credit for downtown's comeback goes to the Lafayette Railroad Relocation project. Removing the trains that bisected town was a huge benefit for both traffic and safety through downtown and into West Lafayette. The first railroad was relocated in 1994, ending 142 years of train traffic down the middle of 14 blocks of Fifth St. The second Railroad was relocated in 2001. It was a project that had taken about 30 years from developing and talking about the idea through funding and construction. Two new bridges were built, the old Main Street bridge was turned into a pedestrian bridge between Lafayette and sister city West Lafayette. A third bridge also saw improvements also. Two underpasses were installed under the new corridor at Wabash Avenue and North 9th. and finally the old brick railroad depot was moved to a new plaza that anchors the west end of Main street next to the new corridor which now runs next to the Wabash.
Almost immediately you started to see that change was happening. Empty store fronts were no longer empty. Outdoor art appeared in many locations around downtown. New buildings, including nice condos were added along 2nd street and along Main street filling up space that had become parking lots 50 years ago. People were living downtown again. Today on a walk along Main street from 11th down to 2nd street you see almost no empty buildings.
Perhaps one of the most positive results of all this new excitement about downtown is that a lot of interest has been created in support of historic preservation. Much of that excitement has been created by one talented and dedicated young man who has a passion for preservation. Because of that new interest, many of the old buildings have had facelifts that not only preserves them but does so in a manner that is sensitive to the style of the buildings.
One of the fun changers downtown that I love is the appearance of what I call "alley art" which are murals painted on available wall space by some very talented young artists. Each mural is different but they could be described as enchanting, dazzling, intriguing, ironic, or silly but every one of them is fun to look at and they add both color and excitement to our downtown. Once again downtown a fun place to go shopping, to eat out, or to simply walk along and enjoy the views. As I said, I feel lucky to live in a town that was able to pull itself up by the bootstraps, even it it has taken the better part of 50 years. I'm excited to see what's next.
At Riehle Plaza the anchor of Main street |
As we pass through the doors of 200 years of history for Lafayette |
A little playful humor |
More alley art. |
Honoring the Wabash |
One of my favorite pieces of sculpture with courthouse dome in background |
Refurbished. This was once a fires station during the days of horse drawn equipment. |
A little excitment at night. |
Midway down Main, the old Lafayette theater brought back by the City. Appropriate words on the Marquee, Eat - Drink - Explore |